I have only told a few people about the fact that my husband and I participate in threesomes. Most people assume that he must have pressured me into, that I agreed to it to keep him happy. Others think my agreement was because I was secretly a lesbian and I was going to fall in love with whatever woman joined us in bed. These things may be true for some other couple seeking a third person to share their bed, but it was not our story at all.
The fact of the matter is that I have always known that I was pan-sexual. Of course, I didn’t always know that that was the name for it but I knew that I liked people, all of them. I’ve always known that I was a different than most other girls. I was attracted to both men and women. I was cursed with a very expressive face, so the other kids picked up early that I was into other girls and I was branded a lesbian and bullied relentlessly about it. Read the rest of this entry »